I can not change the fact that my current husband just announced that he has GID, gender identity disorder. I can not change the fact that there is nothing I can do and no matter how I feel, I am now in limbo. I am in a state of shock and truly have no place to turn.
lost
1May2009

I cannot change that I feel so lowly about myself. I feel that I am a horrible person, but I really don't know what I have done that is so horrible. I cannot change that I hate myself so intensely. I feel so uncomfortable around other people because I feel if they really knew me, they would hate me as much as I hate myself. I have tried to change this, but so far no luck.

This song is absolutely beautiful!! Between this song and didnt have to be this way, i break down everytime I hear them!! My husband passed away May 11, 2008 leaving me a widdow at age 21 and 5 months pregnant, and as the anniversary of his death gets closer it still seems unreal and frightning!! But I know that I have a beautiful daughter and so many memories to keep him alive....thank you for your beautiful and touching lyrics that have impacted my life!!
-God Bless

Things I thought I could not change became excuses and road blocks. When I’ve allowed myself to explore options and seek help, the doom often became an opportunity. For me it’s important to separate “reality” (what I really cannot impact) and “being stuck.”

I heard about this song today for the first time on our local news station in Denver. I think that it is awesome that a song has touched so many people and helped them express their emotions. If you want to hear other songs like this go to klove.com there will also be a local radio station in your area. I know that it has helped my family enormously! Sometimes music can touch our hearts in ways that we didn't think possible. There are also people 24/7 at klove to talk to for anyone who feels alone or helpless. There are good people out there that do care about you! As quickly as things turn bad in our lives, they will get better even faster, just hang on! And for everyone that has family that doesn't care about them, sometimes friends or coworkers can become our true family. We can't choose the family we were born into, but we can choose who we become! Good luck to everyone and God Bless!